Don’t Call Your ExSeptember 8, 2011 11:01 pm News and Society
After your girlfriend breaks up with you, you may want to call her and apologize to her immediately.However, you must know that in most of the cases, it does not help. Unless you and your girlfriend areused to break up frequently, there always is a strong reason for the break up. When breaking up, yourgirlfriend will expect you to resist, so she will be well prepared to defend her argument. If you want toget her back, you are certainly not going to give her the chance of making an argument.Calling her too early will make her think that you are not taking this break up seriously. You shouldunderstand that your girl wants to see some efforts from your side. She wants to make you miss her. Itis also possible that she just wants some time for herself. If you do not want to wait, then you are givingher the idea that you are weak, and she is more important to you than you are to her.Be strong, do not cry or plead to get her back. You can do the apologizing later when the problem isover, and you get her back. Now all you have to do is to remain calm. I know that you will be missingher, but give her some time to miss you too. Missing you, she will eventually get frustrated and makean attempt to contact you. It is possible that she contacts you accidentally. Only respond to her calls ortexts when you know that she wants to say something. After she calls, you can move forward with yourarguments.
When I was thinking how to get my ex girlfriend back I thought that calling her up and buying her gifts would prove to her how much I loved her.
All it really did was prove my desperation. Systems like the m3 system and ex recovery system teach this much better.